99% of single girls hate the fact that they’re single. They
feel lonely, misplaced, and out of the loop. And while I have experienced all
of that multiple times, I also think that there is a lot to be said for the
single state. Here’s ten reasons why I’m glad that I’m single.
1.
I can wear heavy applications of lipstick and
not worry about kissing issues.
2.
All the blankets on the bed are for me and me
alone!
3.
I can cut my hair any time I want without a
husband raising a stink about it.
4.
No need to read any scary, confusing,
guilt-tripping pregnancy books.
5.
I don’t have to a) worry about planning a
wedding or b) regret parts of a wedding already past.
6.
No anniversary and Valentine’s day presents to
think about. While we’re on the subject, one less Christmas and birthday
present to think about too.
7.
I’m free to comment on the handsomeness of
actors and male acquaintances quite freely.
8.
I can read books for wives and mothers without
fear of being convicted.
9.
I can wear ratty pajamas without anyone knowing
or caring.
10.
I can be the “expert” on homemaking and
parenting without fear of failure.
I think that it’s hard for single
girls to gain a sense of security and belonging without a husband and family.
Meanwhile, we struggle with career choices and where we should live – whether
we should stay where we are, or go out looking. Many of us view homemaking as a
worthy life calling. It’s hard to accept the fact that we’re going to have to
wait for this – or maybe never get married at all. And, I’m right there with
you, ladies.
Be brave, and don’t settle for a
life full of waiting, sadness, and complaining. You are not a lesser individual
because you are single. You are not less pretty, or smart, or witty, or godly than
the wives that you know. You just have a different path to follow. Enjoy your
single state as much as you can, and wear that red lipstick, baby!
- Millie
